Shannon-25 years old . . . perfect Mom? Hardly.

Weston-2 1/2 years old . . . perfect child? Hardly.
Davin-5 months old . . .perfect child? Practically.
These have to be the most adorable, sweet children you've even seen, right? Oh wait, one of them is 2. I am having such a hard time being a happy, pleasant mommy with my Weston. He drives me absolutely crazy about 85% of the time. I am grinding my teeth, my blood pressure is spiking and, if I wasn't so sensitive about my already thin hair, I would be ripping it out. I just don't know what to do with him. I try to keep us busy (as you may have noticed) so that Weston doesn't have as much of a chance to make me nuts, but it doesn't really work. He is at this stage where he is ungrateful, disobedient and laughingly does exactly what I just told him not to do. Every time I give him a punishment or even speak sternly he starts crying and freaking out and saying "I want to be nice." It's like it's almost not worth his reaction to call him on his crap. I still do.

I have been trying to drill into his head that even if he wants to be nice now, he wasn't acting nice before and he still has to deal with the consequences of that. EXAMPLE: Walmart with 2 kids. We had the big cart with a place for Weston to sit. I told him if he could be good (not get out of the cart, not touch stuff, not whine) then when we were done he could play in "Elmo's car". Well I had to scold him the whole trip and remind him about the bribe. At the end he did pretty good, but I decided I couldn't let him have the reward because he was too much of a brat for most of the trip. He screamed and cried when I told him the verdict.
As it turns out I forgot one bag at Walmart and we ended up going back to pick it up and because he did really well with that little aside, he still got a ride in Elmo's car that day. Does that negate the earlier lesson?

I'm pretty much at a loss of how to get through my day without completely losing it. Another joy about Weston is that he is a TALKER. I realize you are probably thinking, "Well look at his mom. She talks all the time." I realize this, but he is incapable of being quiet for more than 5.3 seconds unless he is sleeping or pooping. Even while eating he talks non-stop (and consequently doesn't eat more than would feed your average mouse). Today we had nowhere to go this morning and I was planning on taking him to the park for free lunch, but he said he didn't want to go, so we stayed home. By 10:30 I was contemplating leaving Weston on someones porch with a sign that said "FREE." Anyway, any suggestions would be welcome, or even just a phone call in the middle of the day to distract me from my crazy mommy moods. :)

Davin is a great baby. Very happy and content to just observe and babble. He LOVES Weston and thinks everything he does is great. Davin is my favorite child right now because he doesn't talk. He would be perfect if he could just start sleeping through the night already.

In other news I am trying to get my life together in other ways, thinking that maybe this will help me during the day with the kids. I have started getting up early every day to exercise and read my scriptures before the kidlet bombards me and destroys any quiet time I may have. So far, besides being kind of tired, it is working out great. I really am a morning person and I enjoy being up before anyone else and having that peaceful time. Sorry if this post struck you as pessimistic. I'm really not all that depressed. When Weston is being cooperative we are fine and I'm not such a nutcase.

More Firsts and Park Adventures

I think I have sufficiently recovered from all our fun times with my family now. On Friday night we decided to take a picnic to Murray park and let Davin try out the swing for the first time. We would have done it at our local park, but the "baby" swing there is just a chain on one side and I am way too paranoid that he is going to fall. We had a blast at the park and really enjoyed having a little family time. Saturday we couldn't just sit home, right? I met up with Dawnie and we went and saw "Mamma Mia" (which was great and made me sad that we were in a theater where accepted social norms would frown on my dancing in the aisles) while Wynn and Ian watched the boys. Then we all had dinner together and stayed up WAY too late watching movies and visiting. It was a very late night and I am still pretty tired from it. I'm trying to avoid napping though since I sleep worse if I nap.

Also, I am back in the swing of swimming. Unfortunately the long course (50 meter) season is over and the pool is back to short course (25 yards, standard high school competition length). I miss the long course because it means fewer flip turns. Oh well. It is nice to be more consistent again. A friend in my ward joined the class too, which is kind of fun. One more person to swim with, even if he is more focused on training for a triathlon than on enjoying adult/girly chats during set breaks, like me and the other girls I swim with. :)

I am still steadily making my way through Breaking Dawn and trying not to make it end too quickly. It is so much fun to read though! Today I am relishing a little normal routine without too much going on. Unfortunately we will miss Ian since he is working late. The boys and I went grocery shopping this morning and we got all the "fixings" to start potty training Weston next week (underwear, Pull-Ups, candy . . .). If anyone has any succinct potty training advice, please leave it in my comments. I'm pretty nervous, mostly because I don't particularly enjoy cleaning up excrement. I'm hoping he'll be a miracle boy toddler and pick it up really quick. The plan is to give him a full week of staying close to the potty and using it as often as possible and if he is still not even getting it then we will put it on hold until he is 3. Anyway, look forward to the Potty Training series posts next week.

While my mom was here we fed Davin his first rice cereal. He was amazingly good at eating from a spoon and swallowing the new texture for a newbie. Since that first feeding he hasn't been as thrilled with eating cereal, but we're persevering.
On Thursday evening we went to our local park and decided Davin is big enough to go in the umbrella stroller. He seemed to love it, but got tired more quickly since he had to hold himself up a bit more than normal. What a cutie!
Davin's joyous grin during his first go on the swings.
Davin on the swings with Weston pushing.
Me manning the controls of the stroller at Murray Park on Friday night.
Ian and Weston feeding the ducks at the park. There were like 25 ducks! Weston didn't eat enough of his dinner though because he kept eating the duck's bread. Oh well.Playtime with Daddy.
My little monkey.

Wednesday-Dinosaur Museum and Chick Flick

We decided to do the Dinosaur Museum after all and just pay full price. It was worlds better than if we had tried to do it during 2 Buck Tuesday. Weston got to actually see and touch all the exhibits. He loved pushing any and all buttons, doing the dino puzzle, making echo noises in the star corridor and seeing the human skeleton getting stepped on by the mammoth skeleton. It was a great museum and we will have to go back and play some more sometime. After the museum exhibits we had lunch in the little cafe, purchased the requisite dinosaur toy and headed home to watch Sesame Street for the first time in several days.

Tonight we are going to stay home and relax with a girl movie and some ice cream. We are trying to wind down from all our outings and adventures. Fun times with my Mom. We Olson's sure know how to play hard. It has been such a great visit and we will be sad (and exhausted) when Grandma B heads home tomorrow afternoon. Hope you enjoyed our little travelogue. I will begin catching up on all your blogs tomorrow night, oh wait, I am also going to be starting "Breaking Dawn" tomorrow night, but don't worry I bet I can get to both!

Here is Weston tickling the big huge dinosaur toes. I'm not sure what the deal is with that, but it sure makes us laugh.
Checking out the armored dinos. Not sure why Weston thought a fishy face was good for this picture, but I appreciate my unique little man.
Working on putting together the dino puzzle. He pretty much only played with this already-put-together head/neck piece.
Playing in the erosion exhibit. Basically they have sand and water and you can create dams and gorges and rivers to bury or uncover the little dinosaurs they have in there. Weston didn't get that at all, but had lots of fun digging in the sand with the little dinos.
Woah. That's a big shark, right? Weston wanted to touch his teeth. Um, no.
On our way out of the museum Weston climbed on top of this little pile of rocks and showed us his muscles. He also has his new dinosaur toy in his hand. It was absolutely worth full price to not have to battle the huge crowds.

Tuesday-2 Buck Tuesday

I wanted to take Weston to the Museum of Ancient Life at Thanksgiving Point (aka, the Dinosaur Museum), but it's kind of expensive, so I found out that on Tuesdays in August all venues at Thanksgiving Point are only $2. Well, I underestimated the cheapness and vastness of the Mormon culture in Utah County. We showed up about 20 minutes after the museum opened and discovered that I had vastly underestimated the power of 2 Buck Tuesday. There was a line out the door and around the entire building to get into the Dinosaur Museum. It was a madhouse. We decided that it was not worth it to try to get in, so we went to the little Farm there instead since it was slightly less crowded.

It was still pretty crazy but we had a good time. Weston got his second pony ride in a week and he fed the goats. Grandma bought him a new cowboy hat, a little sheep and a cute tractor/dump truck, which he has been inseparable from ever since.

After the farm we grabbed some lunch then went to visit an old friend of my Mom's in Highland. Weston fell asleep in the car on the way home, which is usually the kiss of death, but amazingly I got him from the car to his bed without waking him up, so it was fine. That night Grandma B babysat while Ian and I went to the temple. Thanks Mom!

Grandma B with Weston checking out the baby chicks. They were so adorable.
Weston with the big dairy cow replica. The Farm is sponsored by Meadow Gold Dairy, so there are some exhibits about how milk is made inside.
Weston poking a goat in the nose.
This was pretty much Davin on all of our outings-smiling and playing with linkadoos in the stroller or sleeping in the stroller. He is such a great baby.
Weston on pony ride #2. He is so grown up riding without me walking with him!

Weston was getting tired and a little cranky by the time we left, but I really wanted a picture of him in his new cowboy hat, so lets pretend this is his tough guy face and not his bratty 2 year old face. :)

Monday-Departures? and FHE

I got a little lazy with the pictures on Monday for some reason. We went to the big pool Monday morning and had a really fun time swimming. I even took Davin in the pool for the first time and he loved it, but I didn't get any pics, so we will have to do it again before the end of the summer. Anyway, after showering and eating lunch I took Dad and Jules to the airport to catch their flights back to CA. Unfortunately I didn't have my cell phone on me and when I got home I found out that their flight was delayed 4 hours, so Mom went back to the airport to pick them up. I thought it was kind of nice having them with us that evening for dinner and FHE. Long story short, their flight ended up being cancelled and they were put up at the Crystal Inn for another night and didn't get out of Salt Lake until 10am Tuesday!

We had a really fun FHE. We talked about prophets and then we all picked a prophet and made a paper bag puppet of them. We went around and told what prophet we picked and a little bit about that prophet, then sang "Follow the Prophet". It was a big success.

Here is Weston with all of our prophets. He is pointing to his on the end. He picked President Monson (surprisingly) and drew the face mostly by himself.
From L-R: President Hinckley, Lehi, Nephi, Joseph (and the coat of many colors), Moses and President Monson.

Sunday-BBQ with the Millers

Sunday morning Mel and Brad left for Logan to visit with Brad's family. We were sad to see them go. It was such a short visit. Blah. Anyway, the rest of us headed to church. That evening we had a big Olson-Miller BBQ. It was tons of fun to hang out with the whole Miller clan and catch up on life and let the kids play. Weston and Lincoln were such cute little buddies. They played in the dirt and with the laser guns all night. Weston asked if he could spend the night when it was time for them to leave. We will have to arrange that one of these days. Anyway, we are so glad they could make it (and the zucchini cake was AMAZING, Natalie!)

Grandpa Bob with Davin in their Sunday best.
Weston and Lincoln. Look at those dirty little boys!

Saturday-SLC and Rockband

Saturday morning we got up bright and early and met up at the TRAX station to go to Temple Square. Weston was stoked that he got to ride the train. We had a wonderful time seeing the temple grounds, watching the Joseph Smith movie, eating lunch at the Lion House and then taking the train home. It was the perfect way to do the outing. Mom and Jules took Weston and Davin to the children's part of the Church History Museum during the movie and Weston had a blast playing with the doctor stuff and seeing the replica of Angel Moroni.

While the boys were napping we left Grandma and Grandpa at home to nap too while the rest of us headed over to Verite to play some Rockband. It was awesome. I had never played. We had fun belting out songs and I enjoyed the drums as well. It felt good to have some sibling time without the kidlets.

That night was dinner and game night. We even got to watch fireworks outside, since Kearns was having their big summer Fire, Water, Ice Festival. We played Yahtzee until about 10:30 and were very silly. It was fun times. I would also just like to point out that Ian won Yahtzee again.

The aunties+Uncle Brad with Weston at the TRAX station.
Me and my Mom!
Weston the first couple minutes of the train ride. So excited.

Weston on the train on the way home from SLC.Me and my sisters at Temple Square.
Us-Davin

Ian with Weston on his shoulders in front of the Salt Lake Temple.
Weston saw that big Angel Moroni and wanted to tickle his toes. What a weirdo. Ian on guitar, me on vocals, Mel on backup.